A piece of cake

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I stepped into the unknown last night- into a neighbor’s holiday party. There wasn’t much detail given as to if we were eating dinner, having drinks, dessert, or just some appetizers. Turns out there was a lot of food. But it was fairly easy to navigate. I avoided the little sandwiches and puff pastries and […]

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Fear…or friend?

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If you are reading this, it means you likely either are doing triathlons, or are planning to a triathlon. With triathlon, as with open water swimming, as with life, there will be a level of fear that you will have to deal with. By purposely putting yourself in a situation that for many people raises […]

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Why you are still slow?

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There’s a concept that Buddhism teaches called “impermanence”. Accepting that nothing is permanent can go a long way in getting past obstacles, and not being attached to outcomes. How many times have you had a less-than-good workout, or a sub-par swim, and it feels discouraging, to the point that it carries over into the next […]

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Swimming vs Driving?

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There’s an interesting phenomenon with some people when driving. Many are competitive. It’s a race! A race to work.A race to get somewhere on time. A race to get home to relax. “Get out of my way, you’re slowing me down.” The pool can be similar. If you’ve ever done lap swimming in these pools […]

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If you’re feeling stuck

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There’s a concept that Buddhism teaches called “impermanence”. Accepting that nothing is permanent can go a long way in getting past obstacles, and not being attached to outcomes. How many times have you had a less-than-good workout, or a sub-par swim, and it feels discouraging, to the point that it carries over into the next […]

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How to befriend the chop

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Water comes in so many forms. It can be calm, warm, and inviting.And it can be rough, cold, and mean! Christopher from Wisconsin joined Tri Swim Success last year, and has had many successes this year. He recently emailed me a summary of his season, which turned out amazing, on many accounts, with him exceeding […]

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I fell apart

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Have you ever felt like you need to constantly have momentum going forward, or you’re falling behind in life, or in your athletic endeavors? I was very much looking forward to the new year, 2020. I had a lot of momentum in all areas of my life in December. Things were going well fitness-wise, business-wise, […]

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How do you know?

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Ever make assumptions and then you turn out to be wrong? In the past I have assumed things about people based on their appearance that turned out to be completely wrong. And I still assume things about myself that turn out to be wrong as well. For example, on Friday, I really wanted to do […]

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Auto-motivate yourself

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The topic of motivation came up in our private The Fit Triathlete Transformation Facebook member group yesterday. Someone mentioned that she gets upset with herself when she misses a workout, but only when it’s because she’s simply lazy. Is this something you are doing? Bashing yourself because you are too lazy, kicking your own butt […]

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Work the System(s)

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We have a lot to think about in training for a triathlon. I break it down into four systems. Each system must be functioning (or “firing”), or everything falls apart. Here they are: Mental state. Your mindset/psychology needs to be tended to on a regular basis. If you are going full blast through life and […]

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The obstacle is the way

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Triathlon training is much like traveling. Let me explain. I’m currently in Bali, Indonesia, on a business trip (with a little pleasure mixed in!) It’s allegedly NOT rainy season right now. It’s supposed to be nice. Besides the work stuff, I planned on 4 days near the beach and to surf as much as possible. […]

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When to take a day off

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If you’re like many triathletes who join us, you likely have a harder time taking rest than getting in all your workouts. If you are feeling burnout, extra tiredness, lack of enthusiasm, or feel like you are just going through the motions in your workouts, it may be time to take a day off. Understand […]

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Is it you against the world?

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If you’re the competitive type, you will want to read this. We often get caught up in life with things that are out of our control. Politics. Sports teams. What other people think of us. The weather. Going through life wishing things were different can be quite frustrating. And the “wishing” comes when it’s something […]

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The 4 minute mile is you

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If 6’5 100 meter dash world record holder Usain Bolt grew up in the U.S. instead of Jamaica, he almost certainly would have been a basketball player instead of a track athlete. This means there are probably several Usain Bolts in the US that could compete with the Jamaican, but went a different path as […]

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Friend or fear?

Posted Ella Villas Articles

If you are reading this, it means you likely either are doing triathlons, or are planning to a triathlon. With triathlon, as with open water swimming, as with life, there will be a level of fear that you will have to deal with. By purposely putting yourself in a situation that for many people raises […]

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Transformation with Triathlon

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Last night I attended a talk on transformation through travel. There is so much you can learn from traveling.. especially when things don’t go smoothly. You will learn about yourself in a hurry when you’re stuck in a place where you don’t speak the language and need to figure out transportation, food, and currency. In […]

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Did you get to the top?

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Do you swim and do triathlon for the exercise? For the sheer challenge? For the feeling of accomplishment? Or all of the above? Mountain climbers and hikers often need to get to the top of the mountain to feel the sense of accomplishment. Perhaps one hour of hiking would have the health benefit, and diminishing […]

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5, 4, 3, 2, GO!

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Want to know a way to eliminate the need for motivation to get things accomplished- or just to start out on something? Last year I read “The 5 Second Rule” by Mel Robbins. The idea is, most of us hesitate right when we’re about to do something courageous…then the excuses and justifications come into our […]

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Are you sure?

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Ever make assumptions and then you turn out to be wrong? In the past I have assumed things about people based on their appearance that turned out to be completely wrong. And I still assume things about myself that turn out to be wrong as well. For example, on Friday, I really wanted to do […]

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Why you are still slow?

Posted Ella Villas Articles

There’s a concept that Buddhism teaches called “impermanence”. Accepting that nothing is permanent can go a long way in getting past obstacles, and not being attached to outcomes. How many times have you had a less-than-good workout, or a sub-par swim, and it feels discouraging, to the point that it carries over into the next […]

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Thrive or get crushed.

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There’s a concept of “resistance” that can lie at the root of whatever may be holding you back. Everyone has resistance. It could be resistance to things you know are good for you. Things like eating healthier. Doing the work. Starting a meditation practice. The idea of anger, or sadness. What are you resisting in […]

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Rising above the clouds

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It’s a rainy, cloudy, gloomy day here in Southern California. And if you thought this message was going to just be about the weather, you’re wrong! There is a helpful metaphor with dark clouds. When you start getting wrapped up in a particular thought process, it’s easy to get caught in and endless cycle of […]

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